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[Shaz51]

Hugs @Jacques xx

You are awesome my friend,  please remember you too xx

My kidney function is down to 19% now 

[Zoe7]

@Shaz51 💚💚💚

[outlander]

@Shaz51 

[Shaz51]

Only problem this morning @outlander , @Zoe7. @Jacques. @StuF , @tyme , @Dimity 

Is being consistently ask if I am taking mum home for Christmas lunch or having Christmas lunch with her at the aged care home 

Arrgggggggg

[Zoe7]

Are you able to have Mum home for Christmas @Shaz51 ?

[Shaz51]

No , because of the steps @Zoe7 

And my cousin is having Christmas lunch this year with her aircon on and she has lots of steps 

I have told the nurses I will come and visit on the day , and there can only be one visitor at a time 

Also I think it will be too upsetting for mum to visit home and go back @tyme 

[Zoe7]

Oh @Shaz51 💚 I am sure your Mum will love the visit - so hard for you all though my sister 😥

[BlueBay]

@Shaz51 my friend i am thinking of you.  Christmas day is a difficult day especially when our loved ones are in aged care.  

sending loving hugs and care to you xxxxoooo

[StuF]

So much undeserved (and probably unintended) pressure for you @Shaz51 

But you have a plan...I think a good plan. You can't be everything to everyone all the time

[Shaz51]

Thank you my sisters @BlueBay , @Zoe7 

Yes am feeling very torn 

But going to stick to my plan 

It is just people that does not make it easy xxx