My nephew helps where he can @Appleblossom. Her physical and mental health are poor and her surroundings are unsafe. She's physically and mentally unwell - incapacitated to an extent - and unable to look after herself properly. There's been a series of medical crises and she'll reject help then weep at being helpless. There's a tangle of dynamics and finances and expectations and lots of old trauma. I don't know how to navigate the next few months. I can't shake the feeling I'm living on borrowed time.