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30-11-2016 07:46 AM
30-11-2016 07:46 AM
thriving or surviving?
I would really like to hear from people who's partners have BPD issues as well as psychosis. My partner has a bipolar diagnosis but the BPD stuff is what drives me to despair at times with Jekyll and Hyde behaviour that she learnt from her mum in a traumatized childhood.
I want to speak with a psychiatrist about the bipolar BPD childhood trauma combination. Does any free service offer this sort of consult? She'd never want me to talk with her psych.
Jane 9
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30-11-2016 12:12 PM
30-11-2016 12:12 PM
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30-11-2016 02:45 PM
30-11-2016 02:45 PM
Re: thriving or surviving?
Hi Jane 9, I ask myself the same question constantly. I have twin sons who are both autistic and a husband who is bi polar. Autistics like routine and everything in place. The boys do not cope well with the mood swings of their father. Honestly after he left us for 3 weeks earlier this year I wonder whether it is worth trying to keep this marriage together.
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01-12-2016 06:45 PM
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01-12-2016 08:32 PM
01-12-2016 08:32 PM
Re: thriving or surviving?
Hi Mohill, I am Pridesmum from above.need to change name due to recognition by some parties.
Its a challenge..trying to get Husbands Medes under control. Just as well I only hav to deal one day at a time.
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02-12-2016 09:05 AM
02-12-2016 09:05 AM
Re: thriving or surviving?
@Jane9... sad face...
i am guessing the honeymoon period has ended again?
I am honestly not too sure about a free psychiartry service but have you considered a MH support group? even if you go alone to start?
We have a GROW group in our area and my partner and i went along to say hi. He hated it... but what i found helpful... was we met other carers and thier loved ones, who when they explained the challenges they face... it forced him to realise what my life must be like, as in how i percieve our relationship. I think that is what challenged him the most, particularly as he appeared to be one of the more "stable" members in the group, he was force to see what being a carer is like, becasue they dont see it in us...
maybe your partner needs a wake up call, maybe she doesnt want one... either way, you need to look after yourself.
Big hugs!
xx
Tigz
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03-12-2016 07:09 PM
03-12-2016 07:09 PM
Re: thriving or surviving?
Hello @Tiggeroo, @Jane9, @Jimsbobby, @Former-Member xx
how is everyone today ?? it is great to share and talk together, to share any hints or tips or just to talk and relize we are not alone
Hi @Tiggeroo, is you partner going back to the GROW group again , hope soo xx