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Not sure what to do !!!

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oh my dear @Shaz51 hugs my dear friend, it is so so hard caring for our family members, i hope she can be carful while you are away working. please don't ever feel guilty we have our own needs too.

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It is hard @Jacques but mum has a alarm alert that she wears that she presses if she has another fall 

And then it rings the ambulance and me xxx

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Gosh @Shaz51 that's difficult for you. And with so little warning. I hope you can activate the aged care plan asap and you don't have to soldier on by yourself. I guess it's good if your mum is feeling better in herself but you and mr shaz need TLC too. Love to you all, your mum probably feels like celebrating and I hope you have enough sense of humour to ride it out.

Here for you, keep us posted .

Love, Dimity 

 

 

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Oh no!!! @Shaz51  I feel for you so much. 
pls take care of yourself and me Shaz too. 
thinking of you lovely xxxooo

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Hello and hugs @BlueBay , @Dimity  xx

Thank you 

Yes Mr shaz is having restless nights and  dreams and being tired though the day xx @Former-Member , @tyme , @Former-Member 

And I am not sleeping well at night 

 

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That’s not good sis @Shaz51 

lack of sleep affects us so much 

I hope you and hubby can get a good night sleep tonight xxxx

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Ohh  my poor mum , in soo much pain today in hospital,  soo sad 😪

They thought the pain was from her Rheumatoid arthritis and osteo in her hip which was causing it 

They did a xray this afternoon and now she has a broken right hip 😪

 

Wish I could text you all but I amm not feeling too good , feeling soo sad , and now waiting to see what will be done 

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Oh @Shaz51 I'm so sorry to hear. At least they have found the issue now and can hopefully treat your Mum quickly. I hope things ease for her now. We are here, please keep us updated on how you're doing. 

Sending you hugs 💝

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Thank you @Paperdaisy 

Hope soo too 

Just feel like I have been hit by a truck 

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 and so much that you are contending with.

A big warm heart for you all

Take care

your friend Sophia

💜

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