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28-02-2019 10:09 AM
28-02-2019 10:09 AM
Hey @Teej - sorry it has been such a tough time. Great to see you have a lot of support here and a safe plan for the day ahead.
Just popping you an email shortly.
28-02-2019 11:27 AM
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28-02-2019 02:22 PM
28-02-2019 02:22 PM
Thanks @Sans911 .💜🤗
last night was a culmination of lots of things. I am feeling the huge feelings of rejection and failure with the one who wants to move out. I wish I was enough for them to stay. I know logically that it isn’t all about me (they’re fully grown, wise, financially stable mid twenties adults) but I can’t change the feelings that it is about all my weaknesses.
I also had a phone call from my brother where we discussed getting a lawyer involved in my property settlement. I am so mixed with it all and hoped we’d not have to go down this path. My brother has been trying to contact my ex to start talking about it but my ex won’t respond.
Yesterday my psych session through me every which way. I don’t even know what to write about it. I’m trying to drag my backside to my therapist but I just want to turn everything off instead.
28-02-2019 02:43 PM
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28-02-2019 11:22 PM - edited 28-02-2019 11:26 PM
28-02-2019 11:22 PM - edited 28-02-2019 11:26 PM
Not being a pest @CheerBear . I have enough of those at home....ants, a new mouse 😬 and weevils. Sorry you dont come close in the pest department 😜.
Im ok enough. Therapist glued humpty back together. Came home to news of my ex that makes everything messier in that department. Fueled my guilt, shame etc for getting my brother involved because I don’t have big enough big girl pants to deal with that issue.
Am staying at mums tonight just to be safe. I have put so much on tomorrow. Here’s my whinge. It sounds heavy but I don’t feel it that way. For the last few weeks I’ve been putting things off because if it goes badly tomorrow I figured I wouldn’t need them anymore. I’ve spent the week justifying things if it goes badly. I’m writing it here so someone knows but also for accountability.
28-02-2019 11:36 PM
28-02-2019 11:36 PM
28-02-2019 11:44 PM
28-02-2019 11:44 PM
Thanks @CheerBear for understanding the mess that this causes. I’m going to try to sleep for now that I’m yawning. 💜🤗
28-02-2019 11:50 PM
28-02-2019 11:50 PM
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