20-10-2016 02:50 PM
Hello thanks for thinking of me - i'm probably not your poster girl!
My hubby broke every vow we had, put me into ecruciating debt, other women, & after 3 years of getting him to a psychiatrist I had to go or get more broken. The property settlement was a joke, he claimed he couldn't work for a year due to the new diagnosis but that was not true. At the end of the day a nurse, me - paid the lawyer to go!
I now have an international student staying bringing in tax free $$ to help with the mortgage, have started a styling business so i can afford to go on holidays, am still working full time, dancing x 3 a week instead of going to the gym (its cheaper!), sewing, sailing, doing Sydney to Hobart next year. Have registered with a dating agency cause the online dating looks horrific, besides I could do with letting the bats out (if you know what i mean!). I laugh out loud a lot. I interupted a suicidal collegue which i wouldn't have known how to do or what to do a year before.
The psychologist I took us to is only a phone call away as I progress & find out who I am now & venture out.
I will always have a special place in my heart for him. love is unconditonal, the relationship however is conditional.
hugs to all
23-10-2016 09:41 PM
23-10-2016 10:01 PM
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