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Wives caring for Husbands

Re: Wives caring for Husbands

@tyme @Shaz51 @Jynx happy new year! It’s been a crazy few months..no changes, Mum had to go back to my sisters, was too much for everyone. Had a few bad days again, seems I can’t visit my kids often as he feels abandoned by this, was told if I visit then dont come back,  even having their photos on the wall are wrong now. He wanted to punch my son on Xmas day because he talked about his father (my ex) in our house. Now I’m made out to be the bad person. Sighhhhh 

Re: Wives caring for Husbands

Argh, sounds like things have been hectic for you @Tootsy ! I'm sorry to hear about the whirlwind. Hopefully there is calm after the storm @Tootsy 

 

Thinking of you.

Re: Wives caring for Husbands

@Tootsy , soo good to hear from you but very sorry about your storm 

Sending you lots of hugs my friend 🧡 

 

@Healandlove , @tyme , @Jynx 

Re: Wives caring for Husbands

@Shaz51 thank you for the tag shazzy

 

@Tootsy I'm so sorry you are going through this. Not being able to visit your kids is not right. Also not being able to have their photos around. 

I know irrational thinking. I've experienced it with my husband. The thing about wanting to punch your son is really worrying.  Can you get some expert guidance? 

I am here for you and sending you lots of hugs. I hope things settle soon.

Sending you love ❤️.🫂

Re: Wives caring for Husbands

@Tootsy oh wow that is soooo hard!! I can imagine you miss them terribly 🥺

 

Yeah I'm with @Healandlove threatening your son is soooo scary!! Could be worth chatting to 1800RESPECT about it! 

 

Hope the storm passes soon 🤞💜

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